Carolyn and I have since discussed this emotionally draining, oh-so-sad incident many times, carefully attempting to parse the fisherman’s intent and the difference between abandoning a child and attempting to give one a better life. I am, at my core, a family man, just as my father was. The high point in life for Carolyn and me wasn’t sailing around the world; it was raising our daughter, Roma Orion, aboard. We think she turned out well. In any event, she has an MBA from Brandeis, a six-figure job and a wonderful husband. Best of all, she shares our granddaughter, Sokù Orion, with us. We’re truly blessed.